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Kristin's Corner My Weekly Top Things Top Moments Coaching Moment Habituation was a word that came up this past week. Technically speaking, a decrease in responsiveness when an eliciting stimulus is presented repeatedly over a short period of time. In some life instances this is helpful. Getting used to noises, being less afraid of or annoyed at things. It can also lead to feeling bored of the same old same old. How can you switch things up this week so you don't get bored of the same...

Kristin's Corner My Weekly Top Things I've been thinking about how and why I began offering behavior change services for not only the children and adults that filled up my caseload but the MOMS who I saw truly putting in the work day-in and day-out throughout all the intensive programing. The delivery of these services has adjusted somewhat since first adding this to my repertoire of offerings; and it's ever-evolving still. What I've realized I truly enjoy doing through this avenue is...

Kristin's Corner My Weekly Top Things It's Wednesday night and my goal was to start sending this out each Monday... that worked well for one week. But ya know, Reader, I'd rather try, mess up, try, mess up, try, do, do, do than try, mess up, fail and stop. So here we are on a Wednesday sharing what I love to share with you! Top Moments Coaching Moment So this weekend I had an atypical coaching moment with my 7yo daughter. We came to an abrupt stop on our first run of the day as we saw a...

Kristin Frigelj Personal Development Coach I took part in a new experience yesterday, Reader. And if you know me, you know that new stuff can bring about some good old fashioned anxious feelings. This most recent event took place at my chiropractic appointment; a usually harmless event where I leave feeling all straightened out (albeit each time I do feel like he may snap my neck and murder me right then and there). This week he added in a new form of "treatment" in the form of traction. Now,...

Kristin Frigelj Personal Development Coach Dear Reader, I created this new program for you. I know you're tired. You feel like your life is a constant state of multitasking and juggling responsibilities. You have little time for self-care activities. Life has begun to feel monotonous. Your constant focus on work and family needs has led to a loss of personal identity outside of these roles. Not to mention continuous stress and a lack of mindful living is negatively impacting your mental...

Kristin Frigelj Personal Development Coach Hi Reader! I was planning on sharing this over on the 'gram this week but thought I'd send to you first. As we've chatted about a bunch already, for all sorts of reasons holidays can be s t r e s s f u l. Here are four sentences to put on repeat this week to help you get ahead of it. I hope you have an absolutely lovely week! P.S. If you're feeling icky about the end of the year being just 6 weeks away & know you could benefit from some help getting...

personal development through acceptance & commitment training Kristin's Coaching Corner Reader, you may feel pressure from the big bad curated internet to perfectly plan out your meals each Sunday and create a beautifully time-blocked calendar by Monday morning. But what if your week doesn't "begin" on a Sunday? Or if your planned out morning has hit multiple bumps in the road? Here's your permission for a reset. At any time of day or week. Pause. Breathe. Start again from this point. There's...

personal development through acceptance & commitment training Kristin's Coaching Corner I was reminded of this conversation recently that we had in one of our summer cohort coaching sessions. We were chatting about distractions and how mindfulness practices can help with keeping your focus on the task at hand. Now, Reader, this is a strategy that takes practice. This is why we say we practice acceptance and commitment therapy strategies. A common struggle shared by many moms was they often...

personal development through acceptance & commitment training Kristin's Coaching Corner What's your job, Reader? As in, what are you paid to do? I'm a Board Certified Behavior Analyst and behavior change coach. So guess what I spend most of my time focused on? Behavior change. Since 2003 it's been the focus of my education, training, certification, licensure, jobs, businesses... you name it, there's been behavior somehow involved. And I've been lucky to have enjoyed most of it. There have...

personal development through acceptance & commitment Kristin's Coaching Corner “Kristin, one of these days I’m going to have the time to do things I like." "One of these days I’ll focus more on my own self-care." "One of these days I know my days will be better." "Later..." Sound familiar? I hear you, Reader. I have been there. I have told myself the same things. I have thought that later would be okay. I know that life is busy. And that you’re pushing off any changes because they sound hard....